March 11th, 2015
“Friendship is not something you learn in school. But if you haven’t learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven’t learned anything.” muhammad ali
That statement sets the tone for my post tonight. Starting AboutMyBeaches years ago has been great. In reality, it is my diary. Anyone that knows me can check where I am anytime. It is that simple. The idea of my blog started because I think I am a frustrated concierge. Bla bla and more bla. I do have some good information, I think.
My friends put up with me when we go to restaurants. I take photos all the time. They usually order different entrees so that I have more to talk about. My friends are priceless. They know who they are. They are there any time I need them. They also know how to give me space.
I am still celebrating my birthday. I might as well embrace the passing of time. Today, Jody and Debbie got together with me. We had our manis and pedis, had coffee at Starbucks then headed to see Focus, the new movie with Will Smith. You can tell it is still winter/spring at the beach…..look at the photo in the movie theater at Movies at Midway at 4:30 p.m. Lol!! You would have thought it was a private screening.
Off to grab an early dinner at Fins Ale House & Raw Bar located at 19269 Coastal Highway in Rehoboth Beach. Tel. 302-227–FINS. Website? http://www.finsrawbar.com. Jamison, our server, took care of us in a special way. We walked in with presents so he new we were celebrating.
The Balsamic Glazed Salmon Debbie ordered and loved.
Jody ordered their Chopped Salad and topped it with grilled chicken.
After all my dining in Charleston last week I decided that 2 appetizers would be the way to go. The Seared Tuna was really good. No, it was perfect.
And when I saw the Fried Green Tomatoes…..I “gotta” have them. I am on a fried green tomato journey. They were awesome. I could have had just that for dinner. Hope they keep them on the menu.
When I am with my friends there is so much conversation. You would not believe the subjects we come up with. Attitude was a big subject tonight. My friend Debbie brought me a writing by Charles Swindoll on Attitude. It comments about the attitude in our lives the longer we live. That we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. That we cannot change our past or the fact that people will act in a certain way. Also that we cannot change the inevitable. It ends with “And so it is with you, we are in charge of our attitudes”.
Another topic of conversation was how people find each other. My take is that anyone that really wants to find you, can. I did not have to wait too long because checking for my messages on my phone I saw something on my AboutMyBeaches email address…..it was my old college roommate. I have not seen her since 1972. I might have spoken to her in 1976. Her name was Carolyn de Lima and she was from Syracuse. Her family owned Paul de Lima Coffee at the time. So surprised to hear from her. She had been in Puerto Rico and was looking for me. We have not talked yet. I just sent her an email. How nice!!
Connections continue as another friend that lives in Portland is, as I type this post, staying in my apartment in San Juan…..have not seen her since the early 1970s, as well.
So, you see, if you want to find someone….you really can.
So quiet in my house tonight….taking it all in. What a nice day. See you later.
Note: I still have posts from Charleston.
August 26th, 2009
Before I started blogging, and while I was thinking about the concept for my site, it did not cross my mind that I was going to be on Facebook. I still remember one of my son’s friends saying that nobody over 35 should be on Facebook. No sooner he said that, I came across an article that said that most of the Facebook accounts are held by people way over 35. Surprise, surprise.
I think the idea of mature adults being on Facebook is that you can connect with people from your old schools, or other cities or towns you have lived in, or past jobs. Maybe you might think, well, if I have not contacted them then; why should I do it now? There might have been lots of reasons but I can tell you that through Facebook I have reconnected with some of my childhood friends and it is a good feeling. Oh my gosh, I can’t believe that I am even on Twitter now because of the blog. Not too many followers yet, though.
Just as I posted last week about etiquette on the beach, Cindi and Debbie, friends from Ocean City, Maryland, mentioned that a post on etiquette should appear on this blog.
As I was gathering information, I did not have to look far to tell you that there are so many rules of etiquette on Facebook and other online social networks. If you have an account with Facebook and you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you may hit terms and you will find all kinds of rules to adhere to since you decided to become a Facebook member. I am sure a lot of us have not looked at that information.
I also found the following information on 2 websites.
Do not put pictures of you without a shirt. Now I don’t think I need to expand on this one, do I?
Do not friend random people. And, why would you do that anyway?
This is another one. Don’t put a picture of you drinking. Or, when you have had one too many. Probably, the picture will not be a good one, believe me, it won’t be.
Don’t talk on your wall about past indiscretions. Everyone can see it.
Don’t be so personal, keep it clean.
Do not overload on the corny quotes. This is not your high school graduation. Yes, some people really overdo it.
A perfect etiquette rule is; easy on the updates, over sharing could be a problem. Every meal eaten, weather conditions, etc. should not be a status update. Ask yourself if anyone really cares about your comments.
Limit Facebook chat. Just because you see someone with an open window on Facebook, does not mean they are available to chat. That person might be busy.
Again, don’t put pictures of you or anyone, even with their permission, on Facebook if the pictures are unflattering. It is not funny.
The same goes for tagging. You may untag yourself it that happens.
You are under no obligation to acknowledge a Facebook friend request.
Again, just like the beach etiquette, it is just common sense.
Until next time, yes, talk to you later. Have a good one!!
Note: Information on the rules of etiquette online was taken from www.collegehumor.com/article1622972 and www.computerworld.com/s/article/9136045/Facebook_Etiquette_10_Rules
July 27th, 2009
When I started thinking about what to write on my blog I had to start by saying that I define myself as a local of the beaches, more so of Rehoboth Beach, Delaware and Bethany Beach, Delaware. I am not from the area but I have, actually, lived here longer than where I grew up. My friend, Barry, does not think I am a “local”. Because I was not born here, I am, therefore, an outsider in his eyes. But, I am as local as they come. I pay my taxes, my children were born in Lewes, Delaware and have gone to schools in the area. I have my own stimulus package going on at the beach and I try to always buy from the local vendors. So, with that said, I can tell you that I have acquired a wealth of information of the area. Sometimes, it might have been through friends but pretty much is by experience. My friends tell me that I have missed my calling; I should have been a concierge. I like to learn and pass on information about my beaches. A good example would be where to buy the best corn in July and August and where to find fig trees in the area, besides the one in my own yard.
As I start writing on this blog, I would love to get your comments, questions and suggestions. I will be reviewing restaurants and other establishments. I will give you my own opinions on these reviews and, hopefully, if there has been a “so so” review, I will go back again to that place of service and see if things have changed for the better.
Living in the Delmarva coast is a treat. Sooooo, see you soon,
Gloria
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